How can I give my problem to God?
Category: Baby Patterns
I’m stuck between my job and the father of my child. I am in the military and my unit already wrongfully court-martialed me and tried to kick me out on a bad conduct discharge the Judge found me not guilty of the charges but guilty of a lesser charge. I recieved want he gave me and was allowed to stay in. Now my unit is trying to kic me out with pattern of mis-conduct. It is frustrating because I am trying to rehabilitate myself after the court-martial but I haven’t been given the proper oppurtunity. I have been asking my unit to let me go to another duty station so I could be given a chance, but they refuse. I’ve been in for 7 years and 5 years I have been squarded away soldier. When I came to this unit I lost everything I worked for. I was a senior specialist when I came here. Now I’m a PFC that is struggling to erase what has happened to me down range and yet it is impossible. On top of that the father of my child is abusing me and is neglecting me and the child. He is away at recruiting school and he told me he has no time to call or text me to check on the welfare of me and the baby. He said school was the most thing important. Today is Feb 22 and I haven’t heard from him since January 22. He is in recruiting school right now and he will go to BNCOC right after. He will be gone for four months. On top of that when he is completely done with school he is trying to get a recruiting assigment away from where we at. He knows I won’t be ale to leave because the Baby will be due in August. Plus he has involved his ex-wife in our relationship. She knows everything about me. Between him and his ex-wife they dog me out each day. He beat me and for a week I had to go to work with two black eyes. I did’t report him because I love him and I’m scared of him all in one. I keep hoping that he will find God and truely change. He abuses alcohol and tells me he is sick and no one can help him.So many guys at my company tells me no matter how drunk a man gets he knows not to put his hands on a women. Im so emotianal stressed out and depressed. I worry about my unborn child. I barely sleep and I’m not eatting enough. I pray constantly that God will hear me and free me all of this. I believe in God and faith it there but it is hard to just give my problems to him and not dwell on them. They keep coming up on me each day. So much pain upon me. What do I do?
i didn’t know god was the problem magnet
Just live your life respectful and forget about all the superstitious nonsense
Look, just deal with it. God is not real.
Take it to God in prayer, and seek Christian counseling. I’d report his abuse to the law, and get advice.
Pray to him as someone said. But you have to trust him. Say to yourself. I trust you God. Im putting my life in your hands. I believe you will take care of this for me, and free me from all of this.
My hope, my faith, my confidence is in you. And it should make you feel better.
However your in an catch 22. You love him, yet he doesn’t love you and beats on you. Its apparent he wants nothing to do with you at the moment.
Your about to have an baby, so he’s due for child support, make sure he pays it.
And if you aren’t married to him. Move on. You don’t deserve no one beating on you, not wanting to be involve with you. You have to believe that you can have better. It might be an struggle to be an single mother. But do you want to be unhappy in an relationship for years to come? Do you want to endure the hardship of having to deal with an ex wife?
You are lovable. And an man should honor and respect you as a women. That is something you can have. And that is something you should aim for, An happy relationship.
Don’t worry. There are men out there who be happy to be with you, and treat you better.
You deserve no less.